Friday, June 24, 2016


So this was my view for the last couple days.  Miss Allie has one, maybe two teeth creeping in on the bottom gum, so enter the fussy-and-I-only-want-to-be-in-your-lap phase.  

I honestly don't mind the clingy-ness much.  I mean goodness, I waited a long time for this girl, and man, she is special!  But... I'm also human.  And well, I was in some kind of funk yesterday.  Nothing to do with her.  I think I felt sort of overwhelmed and unproductive before the day even began.  And maybe it was just purely hormonal.  But I know if you're a woman and you're reading this, you know exactly what kind of feeling I'm talking about.  That combined with my fussy baby girl, let's just say that I was a little too happy to jet off to worship team practice last night, and then on to Wal Mart for groceries after.  

Have you ever been to Wal Mart at 9 p.m. in a small town after a long day?  It's actually quite peaceful and rejuvenating.  It's you and eight other people, mostly young lovers trying to extend their date night.  And you can just take your dang time knowing that the hubby is at home with the little one who is already in bed.  So you end up creeping over to the bakery section and carefully picking out two donuts for yourself as a celebration of getting through the day and for your blissful alone time in Wally World, and because you can't remember the last time you ate.  And then when you're in line checking out, the guy behind you sees your donuts and says, "Two won't be enough."

You got that right, dude.

Tuesday, June 7, 2016

Allie's room

Well, it took long enough, but I've been wanting to show you Allie's room and was just waiting to finish a couple minor details.  You know how it goes; it's always a work in progress!
I had to show you her doorway (above) so you could see her pretty sign that my friend and co-worker, Amber, made for her.  I think it's so cute!

I really tried to design a room that she could grow into and wouldn't look too baby-ish in a few years.  I actually painted her room last summer before we even knew she was coming or what gender we would have.  I decided to do a deep blue-grey color (wolf grey by Benjamin Moore) with white accents/decor, and then add either light pink or light blue accents depending on whether we got a boy or girl.  I first saw the paint color on my friend Jessica's blog in her son's room.  I absolutely love how it turned out!

This beautiful crib came from my brother's family.  It's soooo nice having a brother who has four kids and lots of things to pass down!  Their family has been very generous to us throughout this transition.  A friend from church made the beautiful quilt you see hanging there.  And I had another friend make the vinyl lettering for Allie's wall.  I want Allie to know the meaning of her name and be reminded of it every day.  And of course the scripture is so fitting for our journey, and I wanted to remind myself every day that Allie is God's gift to us and that we have committed her into His hands.

My mom gave us the mobile and it has been really helpful in moments where Allie needs a little stimulation when she lies down.

The ribbon banners above her windows are my favorite pieces in her room!  The pictures do not do them justice.  They are so pretty in person!  I love the mix of pinks, mints, rose golds, and sparkles.  I toyed with making them myself, but by the time I would buy all the various ribbons and supplies, it would probably cost more than just buying them.  I found these on etsy.

My parents got us this awesome chest from Babies 'R Us.  It has been fantastic.  Lots of drawer space and plenty of surface space as a changing area.  I love having it next to the window because Allie will usually look outside and keep herself entertained while I'm changing her.

The painted tree sign came from our baby shower and has everyone's thumbprints and names who attended.  A teacher I work with gave me the beautiful mountain print.

Another favorite... Allie's little feet.  Luke took this picture and then we had it printed on a canvas.

At her changing station we keep a wipe warmer (worth every penny, especially in those first couple months), and a basket full of essential oils, lotion, and powder.  (Diapers are in the top right drawer for easy access.)  Every night before bed I apply a nighttime calming lotion on her and oils if needed.  I like the lavender and serenity oils for calming (they are by my bedside, too), and the breathe oil, which works wonders in clearing her up if she's a little stopped up.  I apply these on her feet in tiny amounts as they are pretty potent.

I saw the adventure quote on Pinterest and my wonderful friend Kara painted it onto a canvas for me.  She did a great job incorporating grey and white!  And my friend Candi made this looovvvely bow board.  I use it every single day.  I love how it keeps all her headbands and bows organized and visible instead of stuffed in heap inside a drawer, plus it's so pretty!  

To the right of the chest and behind the chair we keep the diaper genie and a carriage full of Allie's stuffed animals.  Luke's mom gave us the beautiful carriage.  I keep it in the corner because it can tend to look messy, but also because it does roll and so Allie doesn't need to have easy access, haha.  It's nice for keeping her animals in one place.

These shelves just make me smile.  Our dear friend and Allie's "Papa" Charlie (friend from church who is like another father to us) made these custom bookshelves for Allie.  I saw something similar on Pinterest, sent him a picture and measurements, and now we have an awesome place for her books.  In my opinion, books are the one thing a child can't have too much of.  I really hope Allie loves to read.  Charlie not only made the shelves, but installed them, too.  I had him start close to the bottom so that she will be able to actually reach some of her books once she is able to stand.  And big thanks to my sister-in-law Kristin for distressing them for us!

I've also been very pleased with this rug.  I got it from  I wanted something fairly neutral that would work for future kids or even other rooms.  It's pretty much something that could be used in any room of the house really.  It is very thick and plush and great for playing on.
And the glider... We are thankful for that glider!  My in-laws gifted it to us from Babies 'R Us.  It is comfortable and rocks super smoothly.  One of my favorite times of each day is sitting in the chair with Allie and giving her her bedtime bottle.  Last night after she finished her bottle, I sang a little as I always do.  She started "singing" with me on You are My Sunshine.  It was a precious moment engrained in my heart forever.

I hope you enjoyed seeing Allie's room!  And thank you to the many friends and family who helped make it so special!  Definitely my favorite room in the house now...

Monday, May 9, 2016

a day I've been waiting for

My dearest Allie,

Yesterday was a day I'd longed for.  My first Mother's Day.

Not only did you soothe the ache in my heart that longed for a child, but my heart has grown about ten sizes since you came.  Oh, Allie, you bring so much joy to my life every day, not just on Mother's Day.  Every day with you is special and worth celebrating!

Today I received a pretty purple flower at church as a gift for being a mom.  When we got home from church, your daddy gave me two sweet cards.  One was from you, Daddy, and the puppies and it made me laugh.  The other was just from Daddy with very sweet words he had written.  He loves watching me be a mommy to you!  Then I opened your gift.  It was a Willow Tree figurine of a mother and daughter.  It is beautiful and precious just like you.

Thank you for lighting up my life and making my heart explode with love.  You are better than anything I could have dreamed of.  I am convinced I am the most fortunate and blessed woman in the world to get to be your mama!

Wednesday, April 27, 2016

spring cuteness

Here are shots Luke took of Allie at six months and for Easter.  I am in love!

that face...

This girl loves being outside!  I don't think I've ever been more excited about warmer weather and the summer ahead!  I'm thinking... baby pool.  Definitely a baby pool!

little bunny.

Allie's personality is developing every day.  It's so invigorating watching her change and do new things all the time.  The last couple weeks her thing was "dadadada."  This week it's "bababa."  My friend Carolyn asked if that was for "bottle" or "baby," to which I replied, "It's not for anything."  I then thought, 'Oh, I guess we need to start actually connecting objects to words...  Oops.'  It's crazy to think she's over seven months old and near talking when I still often think of her as the newborn she was only a moment ago.  We DO however try to connect who "dada" and "mama" are (although she's not quite saying mama yet).  That's the priority, right?  

One of my favorite things right now is how excited she gets to see us, especially first thing in the morning.  She usually squeals with absolute delight when we walk in.  Talk about feeling loved!

I also really love my time with her at night before bed.  Lately she has struggled to stay awake during her bottle and so when we finish and I'm burping her, she ends up just laying her head and my shoulder and sometimes falls asleep.  Normally we don't rock her to sleep; we just lay her down when it's time.  But I love her head on my shoulder so much that I'll rock for a bit and sing and just soak in the moment as deeply as I can.

This mama got TEN hours of sleep last night, hence my brain is rested and functioning enough to write a blog post, hooray!!

Tuesday, March 29, 2016

stuff that helps my mommy life

Let me start by saying, none of these items are mommy-specific (except the book).  I just simply appreciate them even more since becoming a momma!  Just thought I'd share...

Sleep line from BBW (lavender chamomile) - bubble bath, body wash/foam bath, lotion
This stuff is LEGIT.  When I use these, I can seriously feel my muscles relax and I definitely fall asleep faster.  It’s also a nice pampering treat at the end of a long day, especially if I am able to work in a bath.  For me, using a combination of the products is more effective than using one product alone.  For example, if I take a bath AND use the lotion, you can pretty much count me as passed out within ten minutes.  Annnd they smell WONDERFUL.

MK Volu-Firm Eye Renewal Cream and Eye Soothing Gel
I’ve been a faithful user of Mary Kay eye care products for years and for good reason.  I use the gel on mornings when my eyes are a bit puffy (which is most mornings).  It is cooling, soothing, and it depuffs your eyes in a matter of seconds.  I use the renewal cream at night.  It is super duper moisturizing and it works over time to combat darkness and wrinkles.  It truly works!

BareMinerals blemish Remedy Foundation
I love this for many reasons.  It’s easy and quick to apply.  It feels so light on my skin.  It improves my skin while I wear it.  As a mom on the go who benefits from multi-tasking products, this one’s a favorite.

Herbal Essences Naked dry shampoo
I am an avid user and believer in dry shampoo, and I feel like this is one of the best WM/drugstore options out there.  It really WORKS and it smells great (as do all Herbal Essences products).  I typically go about 3 days in between washing because of this, and could probably go more.    Soooo much time saved!!

Out of the Spin Cycle by Jen Hatmaker
I am a fan of Jen Hatmaker and I love her laid back, raw, humorous writing style.  This is a great book of short devotions geared for mommas.  While it is not my main Bible study right now, it is great for when I have a few minutes and need a dose of encouragement.  And thanks to my thoughtful friend Kelsie for gifting it to me!

Homemade Granola Bars
These are one of my favorite snacks to make and have on hand.  They are super easy to make, fairly healthy, high in protein and fiber, and easy to grab and take with me in a baggie.  I’ll admit that even though I love to eat, I do not always make the time to eat as much as I should because I’m so focused on Allie and what she needs, or I’ll go longer than I should between meals and snacks.  So this is a great snack to have ready on hand and it fills me up.  AND they are YUMMO! 

1 cup quick oats
1/2 cup peanut butter
3 TBSP honey
1 tsp vanilla
1/3 cup chocolate chips (or something else of your choice.. raisins, etc.)
Mix all with wooden spoon and press into 4x8 pan with wax paper on bottom.
Or double the recipe and use 8x8 pan. :)

Thank you to my friend Stephenie who shared this recipe with me! :)

If you're someone who likes to comment on posts, I'd love to hear what some of your favorite things from your daily routine are right now!

Thursday, February 11, 2016

nevermind you, February, we're doing a Christmas post

More snow days here in Kentucky... More going through neglected pictures from the last few months.  I didn't realize how many we had taken on Christmas morning.  These were too special to not post.  Luke got me a metal picture (yes metal) to hang up of Allie and me.  LOVE LOVE LOVE.

We're kids, ya know.

I was soooo stinkin' excited about giving this personalized coffee to Luke.  I stumbled upon one day and knew I'd hit the jackpot.  This guys loves his coffee, and he loves personalized gifts.  He loved it so much he teared up a little.

Needless to say, it was a wonderfully perfect Christmas morning because of this little girl right here.